12/20/2023 0 Comments Making mr right 2017Subsequently, I decided to write down the characteristics I wanted in my next partner. By then I had watched “The Secret” and learned manifestation and law of attraction tips from it and other self-help materials. Three years after his passing I was ready to attract someone else into my life. We were married 13 years when he suddenly passed away. We met at that self-improvement seminar a few weeks later, and while out on our first date, he turned to me and said, “aren’t you going to hold my hand?” He had no way of knowing how I asked to have someone to hold my hand only a few weeks earlier, yet the universe heard it, and brought me what I asked for. I began to cry, saying how I just wanted someone to hold my hand (again I unknowingly stated this as an affirmation). A few weeks prior to meeting him and going on our first date, I was driving to a self-improvement seminar and saw two people holding hands. Instead of making my typical New Year’s Resolution, I said that 1984 was going to be the year that I meet my soulmate!įour months later, I did just that. Instead of hoping for a relationship, I decided to state an affirmation. I didn’t know that was what it was, because I hadn’t yet learned the term. All of a sudden an idea came into my head. 30 years old, not married, nor in a serious relationship, I was feeling a bit scared and lonely, wondering if I would ever meet my Mr. I started telling myself that I had to kiss a lot of frogs to find my prince. Rarely did I find someone I wanted to go on a second date with, and if I did, I realized after the second date that we weren’t a match. Then I had a three year period where I went on a dating spree to find Mr. I had been through three consecutive serious relationships in my twenties. However, once we realize we have the ability to attract the type of person we seek and are deserving of, then the need to settle can be washed away. Yet, many people will stay in the relationship in the latter situation because they would rather be in a less than happy relationship rather than go back out into the unknown world of dating. Once that initial phase wears off, whatever’s left determines if there are long-term success factors in the mix. In the beginning of relationships, the aspects of physical attraction and lust take over and make us feel great. I was just hoping I would meet the right person to spend my life with.Īlso, I was only looking at the superficial aspects of physical and emotional attraction, and not the bigger picture, like do we have the same goals and wants so that we may grow together in the same direction. Prior to that I was just running on autopilot. On New Year’s Eve over thirty years ago, I inadvertently discovered the power of manifesting a perfect partner into my life. Relationship by Barbara Steingas, Inspirational Author/Speaker & Radiant Life Coach
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